About Belief Blog

The Proof is in the Pudding October 14, 2010

As mentioned in previous blogs, my husband is undergoing chemotherapy for post surgical treatment of a stage 4, signet ring cell carcinoma of the sigmoid bowel. He has had 8 of the 12 bi-weekly cycles of chemo and tolerated the very toxic cocktail amazingly well.

Since the end of June we have spent time every week at our Cancer Clinic for either treatments or dressing changes, and we have had the opportunity to speak with doctors, nurses and patients about their experiences. One thing is very clear to me; those with a positive attitude do much better than those without.

We certainly understand the anxiety, distress, fear and lack of control that goes along with a cancer diagnosis – none better – but we also understand that there are things you can control, and those things can help to mitigate the effects of the rest. Take control of your mind set. Do whatever you can to release negative thoughts and behaviours and encourage any and all positive thoughts and feelings. Do it every day.

One of the things I did for my husband to help support a positive attitude was to make a recording of affirmations specifically to help during his chemotherapy. This recording, which he listens to every night at bed time, confirms his belief in the appropriateness and efficacy of his chemical therapy and the efforts of his entire medical team. It also works to mitigate side effects and support general good health.

And, as it is meant to, it works! He has not had to reduce the dosage or frequency of his treatments. His appetite is good and he sleeps well. He is cheerful and optimistic. He has not missed one of his weekly golf games with his buddies and best of all during a time when things could be so difficult and so stressful between us we have grown even closer, experience deeper intimacy and have learned to appreciate each other so much more than ever before.

We know we’re not out of the woods yet – we still have a long way to go before we can claim a victory, but with a strong positive attitude we know we can get through this and much more.

Because my husband had benefitted so much from his recording I am offering it, for free, to anyone who is undergoing chemotherapy treatments. Click here for your free, 15 minute MP3 recording.

As a caregiver I know first hand the stress and anxiety we go through trying to support our loved ones who are fighting cancer. The feelings of fear, helplessness and inadequacy are almost overwhelming. You need support too so I am also offering a special affirmation recording for caregivers of cancer patients. Click here for your free, 15 minute MP3 recording.

I would love to hear your feedback and comments on the recordings and, if I can help you manage your stress or other related issues, please don’t hesitate to contact me at brigid@ocenasidehypnotherapy.com.